First National Daughter’s Day in 1994: On April 28, 2022, National Daughter’s Day celebrations aim to empower young girls across the country. But the holiday originated from the sometimes embarrassing, yet meaningful, Take Our Daughters to Work Day launched in 1993.
Looking back at the inaugural event in 1994 reveals the enthusiasm along with the inevitable awkward moments that came with bringing girls into office environments. While workplace norms have evolved, the special day sparked important conversations about supporting girls’ professional aspirations.
The Origins of National Daughter’s Day
The Ms. Foundation for Women created Take Our Daughters to Work Day in 1993 during a time when young women lacked visible role models pursuing professional careers. The goal was to expose girls to potential career paths and workplace realities.
On April 28, 1994, the first official Take Our Daughters to Work Day saw millions of girls descendent upon offices nationwide for job shadowing and mentoring. The name later changed to Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day before being rebranded as National Daughter’s Day in 2017.
Humorous First Impressions of Office Life
For many girls visiting mom or dad’s office for the first time, the experience made a big impression – sometimes for humorous reasons. The office environment, workplace dynamics, and corporate rituals were new and often eye-opening.
Some girls compared offices to how they’re depicted on TV and in movies. “It’s more fun on TV,” noted 10-year-old Nichole Doss after shadowing her stockbroker father. Others got their first taste of office politics when managers and executives put on congenial faces for the visiting daughters.
The “Take Our Daughters to Work” Workbook created for the event prompted girls to write about their experience. One girl described the office as “too perfect” while another remarked that workers “look like robots” amid the sea of suits and ties.
Dealing with Boredom and Adult Conversations
While exciting at first, trailing parents or mentors through long meetings or repetitive tasks got boring fast for some girls. The event workbook tried preparing them for potential tedium with suggestions for staying engaged.
Some awkward moments also stemmed from daughters being privy to grown-up conversations not meant for little ears. Girls’ participants were instructed not to repeat office gossip or confidential information.
“It was sort of embarrassing when someone started talking about their marriage,” wrote 9-year-old Natalie Cooper following a finance company meeting. The firm boundaries between home and work lives blurred a bit.
Changing Workplace Dynamics for a Day
The influx of daughters — often dressed up for the special day — added some temporary chaos but also levity to normally straightforward office environments. Companies noted atypical talk around the water cooler about kids’ TV shows and school activities.
While some workers were unsure how to engage the girls, many relished sharing about their job and life experience. And daughters gained inspiration seeing female role models pursuing careers in law, medicine, engineering, and business.
Some onlookers criticized the event as distracting and better left to class field trips. But supporters saw it as a way to energize workplace culture while investing in the next generation.
Launching Crucial Career Conversations
Beyond the fun novelty, bringing daughters to work spurred important conversations about supporting girls’ professional aspirations — something not traditionally emphasized.
Participants left inspired about their career potential, especially in professions underrepresented by women. The event marked a cultural shift towards encouraging girls to envision power careers.
Looking back, awkward moments were inevitable amid the boldness of inviting girls en masse into corporate America. But the comical memories point to the deeper significance of the pioneering Take Our Daughters to Work Day.
The office visits made professional achievement feel attainable for many girls while also elevating awareness around mentoring and equality in the workplace. National Daughter’s Day continues that mission of expanding girls’ horizons.